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SecularBdancer

Montreal, Quebec | Woman Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak
English, French, Spanish, Italian, Other
I Would Describe Myself As
OK, here’s the deal. I’ve really, really tried not to be “racist” in my taste in men. I really have. I do my best to give white men a chance (I do!), and some of them are quite nice and all, but…



I find myself constantly checking out the men who I really find attractive, that beautiful dark chocolate skin, that gorgeous physiognomy, that easy, rhythmic way of moving… and I think – damn, that’s what I really want!



And since there are very few of these types on the regular on-line dating sites… well, here I am!



But that’s just the ideal exterior I’m looking for. Just as I wouldn’t negatively judge someone based solely on their skin colour, I’m not ready to choose someone based only on that either! ;-)



So here’s the important stuff:



I’m looking for someone who shares at least some of my interests, and all of my core values. My greatest passions: social justice and dance.



Some of my loves: music and dance of the Latin-American/ African/ Caribbean/ Middle Eastern persuasions… all things Italian (ooh, Caravaggio!)… stand-up comedy… my CBC radio…singing just for the fun of it… languages (speak French, Spanish and Italian – forgot most of my German, working on Haitian Creole)… Paris… walking/working out at my local park to great music… playing with kids… a fine meal in great company.



Pet peeves: double standards…planned obsolescence… arctic air conditioning… slavery to gadgets (e.g. when compulsively checking texts/e-mail/ FB updates on the i-whatever takes precedence over interacting with the non-virtual person in front of you)… waste – of anything, food, money, time, energy, human potential… deceit and dishonesty… all forms of injustice.


Sign
Capricorn

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
5' 5 (1.65 m)
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Single
I Have Kids
No
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Smile
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No

Status

My Education Level Is
University Degree
My Current Employment Status Is
Full-time
My Speciality Is
Legal
My Job Title Is
Paralegal - immigration
I Live
Alone
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Teachers Pet
My Social Behavior Is
Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Party Starter
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Dancing, Dining, Exercising, Learning, Music, Travel
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Relaxing, Staying At Home
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Can't answer this one - possibilities are endless.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Can't think of anything I've wanted to try that I haven't done already. Had a pretty great life so far...
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Goofy

Views

My Religion Is
Agnostic
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Very Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
To be happy at no-one's expense!
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly, Goofy

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
Cartoons, Documentaries, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Comedy, Drama, Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Latin, Rock
When I Read, I Always Read
Fiction, Humor, Poetry, Political, Satire
My Idea Of Fun Is
Being swept off my feet on the dance floor… singing raucously with a group of people… walking/ working out to great music… playing with kids… eating a fine meal in great company… exchanging ideas with beautiful minds… hanging out with my awesome god-daughter.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?
A man of substance who stirs my soul with his beautiful mind and big, big heart as we get lost in scintillating conversation. MUST love to give and receive affection. If he can also sweep me off my feet on the dance floor, WELL, - that's as close to perfect as I can think of! :-)

Please don’t bother wasting both our time if you are: married, religious, a smoker, utterly unromantic or looking for Barbie.

Most welcome to respond if keeping healthy and active is important for you too (while also enjoying some cocooning counterbalance!). If you embrace ideas that challenge your whole world view and if doing something socially meaningful is essential to you… let’s talk.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Date, Intimate, Committed