Love so deeply that it hurts
MiAzucarMorena
Grand Terrace, California | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
First name
Allan
I Can Speak
English, Spanish, Binary
I Would Describe Myself As
I'm not loud or boisterous. I tend to skirt the action and observe people around me, because I simply find people fascinating. As well, I can learn something new from every person I meet, which makes meeting people who were previously strangers to me, an enjoyable experience, and I am quite pleased when an acquaintance and I turn a corner while walking together and we call each other, "friend".
I will go very far out of my way to help or protect those whom I consider to be my friends. I won't go so far as to say that I am a loyal friend--that makes me sound more like an Irish Setter, and I would like to believe that I am still more intelligent than a pooch. Well, at least a little, anyways. ::: crossing fingers :::
I will go very far out of my way to help or protect those whom I consider to be my friends. I won't go so far as to say that I am a loyal friend--that makes me sound more like an Irish Setter, and I would like to believe that I am still more intelligent than a pooch. Well, at least a little, anyways. ::: crossing fingers :::
Sign
Taurus
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is
5' 10 (1.78 m)
My Eyes Are
Gray
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian, Native American, Other
My Marital Situation Is
Widowed
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Butt
Body Art
Secret Piercings, Visible Tattoo, Other
My Hair Is
Brown
I Have One Or More Of These
Cat
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
Some University
My Current Employment Status Is
Retired
My Speciality Is
Computers / Electronic
My Job Title Is
I know it's broken. I'll fix it...soon.
I Make This Much In A Year
$45,000USD To $59,999USD
I Live
Alone, With Pet(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
Yes - One Or Two
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is
Flirtatious, Friendly, Observant, Reserved
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Cars, Computers, Cooking, Dining, Family, Internet, Learning, Music, Photography, Reading
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be
I haven't been on a date in something like 40 years by now--I have not even the slightest idea....something that allows me to concentrate upon the person I am with.
I enyoy being able to focus completely on who I am with, nearly blocking everything else out. I find getting to know aperson to be something of an adventure, with no ack of pleasant surprises.
Through my short time on this planet, I have discovered that we--all of us doing our very important things--we are more similar to one-another, than we are different from each other.
I enyoy being able to focus completely on who I am with, nearly blocking everything else out. I find getting to know aperson to be something of an adventure, with no ack of pleasant surprises.
Through my short time on this planet, I have discovered that we--all of us doing our very important things--we are more similar to one-another, than we are different from each other.
I've Always Wanted To Try
Sky diving with a wing suit on to see how much horizontal distance I can travel from my jump point.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Buddhist / Taoist
I Attend Services
Never
My Political Views Are
Liberal
My Goal In Life Is
A funny thing happened to me,when I was on my way to reaching the age of 8.
Back then, my Dad was preparing to deploy to Viet Nam to fly rescue missions North of the DMZ. We had spent the better part of my school year in the Florida panhandle, where my Dad trained on flying Sikorsky helicopters to be able to fly those missions, and I spent much of my time trying to figure out the school teachers.
One evening, after my Dad returned from his day at Eglin Air Force Base, we sat out on Destin Beach (whitest sand I've ever seen) and talked for a while.
Somehow the talk wound through the territory of things that I wanted to do or make, and why. I told him that I had seen a flying squirrel on some nature program on TV and, tying that into the training he was going through, I told him that I thought that a flight suit that had canvas stretched between the arms and legs, like the flaps of loose skin on a flying squirrel, would allow a parachutist to glide long distances before opening his parachute.
To put paid to my idea, I showed him a small sketch of what I was talking about.
He looked it over and handed it back to me, saying that it wouldn't work.
I won't tell you that my little heart was broken, and that I lost millions of dollars of future income because of it (well, maybe the last part is actually true, but I'm not fussing over it...not this many years later).
My Dad did help me learn a very important lesson, though, along with many, many other people that I have met during my life: When you come up with an idea that inspires you, that advances a new and innovative concept, which can help people... don't listen to the naysayers. As much as you are able, run with your idea, and make it a reality.
When I have done that, since that day, I have enjoyed those immediate moments of being alive, and have looked forward to the fruit of my labors.
Back then, my Dad was preparing to deploy to Viet Nam to fly rescue missions North of the DMZ. We had spent the better part of my school year in the Florida panhandle, where my Dad trained on flying Sikorsky helicopters to be able to fly those missions, and I spent much of my time trying to figure out the school teachers.
One evening, after my Dad returned from his day at Eglin Air Force Base, we sat out on Destin Beach (whitest sand I've ever seen) and talked for a while.
Somehow the talk wound through the territory of things that I wanted to do or make, and why. I told him that I had seen a flying squirrel on some nature program on TV and, tying that into the training he was going through, I told him that I thought that a flight suit that had canvas stretched between the arms and legs, like the flaps of loose skin on a flying squirrel, would allow a parachutist to glide long distances before opening his parachute.
To put paid to my idea, I showed him a small sketch of what I was talking about.
He looked it over and handed it back to me, saying that it wouldn't work.
I won't tell you that my little heart was broken, and that I lost millions of dollars of future income because of it (well, maybe the last part is actually true, but I'm not fussing over it...not this many years later).
My Dad did help me learn a very important lesson, though, along with many, many other people that I have met during my life: When you come up with an idea that inspires you, that advances a new and innovative concept, which can help people... don't listen to the naysayers. As much as you are able, run with your idea, and make it a reality.
When I have done that, since that day, I have enjoyed those immediate moments of being alive, and have looked forward to the fruit of my labors.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Obscure, Raunchy
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Blues, Classical, Country, Electronic, Folk, Jazz, Latin, New age, Pop, Reggae, Rock, Soul, Vacuum Cleaner Noises
When I Read, I Always Read
Ancient, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Computers, Fiction, History, Humor, Instructional, Mathematics, Mystery, Nature, Philosophy, Romance, Reference, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is
Taking a long drive, deliberately getting myself completely lost discovering someplace new, and meeting new people.
Now, recently, I decided that, since I was too busy working back when I was 15 years-old, I completely abandoned my desire to learn to play the guitar, electric tenor, and various incarnations of the electric bass.
So, now I spend my time trying to get my fingers limbered-up enough to work the fretboard the way it wants me to, while listening to music that I listened to, back in the 70's and 80's, and trying to keep up with the people who have that talent.
It can be frustrating at times, because my fingers are not as flexible as I would like them to be, but they are starting to do what I want them to do, and I'm having more fun than I would have back when I was 15.
I know that making mistakes and not being perfect are the cobble stones on the road to learning a new skill....and that is an enjoyable way to spend some of my spare time that I find in my day.
Now, recently, I decided that, since I was too busy working back when I was 15 years-old, I completely abandoned my desire to learn to play the guitar, electric tenor, and various incarnations of the electric bass.
So, now I spend my time trying to get my fingers limbered-up enough to work the fretboard the way it wants me to, while listening to music that I listened to, back in the 70's and 80's, and trying to keep up with the people who have that talent.
It can be frustrating at times, because my fingers are not as flexible as I would like them to be, but they are starting to do what I want them to do, and I'm having more fun than I would have back when I was 15.
I know that making mistakes and not being perfect are the cobble stones on the road to learning a new skill....and that is an enjoyable way to spend some of my spare time that I find in my day.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Humor, Intelligence, Oddities, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?
People who treat others with kindness and understanding, without judgment or condemnation.
People who enjoy the immediacy of the moment spent with somebody you are enjoying learning more about...sharing some time spent staring out into the world around us, and the stars above us, being refreshed and strengthened by sharing the quieter moments with another person, exchanging ideas, and a sip of wine now and then.
People who enjoy the immediacy of the moment spent with somebody you are enjoying learning more about...sharing some time spent staring out into the world around us, and the stars above us, being refreshed and strengthened by sharing the quieter moments with another person, exchanging ideas, and a sip of wine now and then.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend